Beating Stage Fright

When I watched this video of Joe Kowan talk about how he beat stage fright, I could TOTALLY relate. Although I am a professional motivational speaker and love speaking in front of a group, when it comes to singing my original songs in public that I have written, well, let’s just say that's a whole different story.  You’d think there wouldn’t be a difference, right? After all, if I can speak freely in public, then why would I be nervous to sing in public?

Well, I’m proud to say that in the last year I’ve been coming out of my shell when it comes to my singing voice and sharing my songs. What this means is that I have had to face my own fears. Let’s face it, we all have fears. I truly believe that even the most successful people out there all have moments of fear and insecurities, just like anybody else. The difference is they do not allow their fears to stop them from persevering to go after what they want.

Now, I’m not saying that overcoming fear is easy by any means. It has not been easy for me to conquer my fears about singing in front of an audience.  I just made the decision to do it and then just did it. It was something I've always wanted to do and I just got tired of letting myself be my own worst enemy as we so often are. I’ve gone so far as to sing my songs a cappella as part of my motivational speaking. I remember that first time...My voice was shaking, my throat got so dry and it was far from perfect, but I didn't care as my goal was to simply get through it.

I was on absolute cloud nine when I was done and my heart felt so incredibly fulfilled when people came up to me and told me how my song touched their heart and inspired them. In fact, my intent is to get my songs professionally arranged so that I can really perform them full out when I speak. So if you’re planning to come hear me speak or invite me to speak for your group, be forewarned that you may just get a little extra bonus in the way of an original song to help uplift, inspire and support my key Lighten Up for Good messages. 

Watch Joe Kowan as he shares about beating his stage fright

If you’ve ever dreamed of beating your own stage fright, then I encourage you to watch this truly delightful and inspiring video of Joe Kowan, graphic designer by day and quirky folk-singer by night. You can't help but feel for the guy. You may find that you too can relate to his story and experience. Enjoy and get ready to be inspired.

Roslyn is a motivational speaker, proud cancer survivor, personal coach and best-selling author of The A List: 9 Guiding Principles for Healthy Eating and Positive Living. She is best known for her ability to inspire, energize and empower people to lighten up for good and  live a happier life than they ever dreamed possible. Visit, http://www.roslynfranken.com